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Marriage - man

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HOW TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND

 

PRACTICAL BEHAVIOUR

 

Be the number one leader of your household in following Yahusha.

 

Ask your woman for advice (she is your helper). But you do not have to listen to her advice

 

Every day be attractive for your woman.

 

Keep your woman holy; fullfil her needs/desires willingly (affection & intercourse), lest she be tempted into sin easily.

 

Daily loving physical contact without her asking for it.

 

Have your finance and administration in order

 

Avoid debts

 

Communicate the family plans every day

 

Discuss everything, but make the decisions

 

Give your woman finances for herself (according to your budget)

 

Daily give your woman instructions so that she knows what is expected from her.

 

Work hard and be diligent

 

Be hospitable and friendly

 

Make you own money, be independant

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Read a lot

 

Surprise your woman with something that she likes.

 

Take good care of yourself, children and everyone around  you (food, exercise, hygiene, be as natural as possible).

 

Be nice, friendly, honest and polite.

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Gen 3:16  Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. 

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Be her:

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protector

provider

personal trainer

dietitian / diet coach

leader

coach

therapist

psychologist

emotional healer

counselor

financial manager

career manager

spiritual leader

mentor 

body guard

seed giver

trophy

commanding officer

drill sergeant

 

Do not misabuse your authority as leader of the house; do not ask/require to much.

 

Do not scream, do not curse, do not be aggressive. (In your anger do not sin)

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Do not withhold righteous discipline and correction from your wife/wives and children. They need it.

 

Apologize regularly: do not be too proud for it.

 

Evaluate your behavior on a daily basis according to the bible.

 

Make sure everybody speaks positive about you; including your enemies.

 

Be faithful; do not flirt. only talk business (serious marriage conversations)

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SCRIPTURES

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Gen 1:26  And The Most High said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. 
Gen 1:27  So The Most High created man in his own image, in the image The Most High created he him; male and female created he them. 
Gen 1:28  And The Most High blessed them, and The Most High said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

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Gen 2:7  And The Most High formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. 

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Gen 2:18  And The Most High said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 
Gen 2:19  And out of the ground The Most High formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. 
Gen 2:20  And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. 
Gen 2:21  And The Most High caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; 
Gen 2:22  And the rib, which The Most High had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. 
Gen 2:23  And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 
Gen 2:24  Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. 

 

Gen 3:16  Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. 

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Num 30:7  And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand. 
Num 30:8  But if her husband disallowed her on the day that he heard it; then he shall make her vow which she vowed, and that which she uttered with her lips, wherewith she bound her soul, of none effect: and The Most High shall forgive her. 

 

Num 30:13  Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void. 

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Est 1:20  And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small. 

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1Co 11:3  But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is The Most High. 

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1Co 14:34  Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 
1Co 14:35  And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 

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Eph 5:22  Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto The Most High. 
Eph 5:23  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 
Eph 5:24  Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 
Eph 5:25  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 

 

Col 3:18  Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in The Most High. 
Col 3:19  Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 

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1Ti 2:11  Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 
1Ti 2:12  But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 
1Ti 2:13  For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 
1Ti 2:14  And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. 

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Eph 5:33  Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. 

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Eph 6:4  And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

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Col 3:21  Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

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1Co 7:3  Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 

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Sir 4:10  Be as a father unto the fatherless, and instead of an husband unto their mother: so shalt thou be as the son of the most High, and he shall love thee more than thy mother doth. 

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Sir 4:30  Be not as a lion in thy house, nor frantick among thy servants. 

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Sir 4:29  Be not hasty in thy tongue, and in thy deeds slack and remiss. 

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Sir 25:24  Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die. 
Sir 25:25  Give the water no passage; neither a wicked woman liberty to gad abroad. 
Sir 25:26  If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go. 

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1Pe 3:7  Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

 

 

 

 

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