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Marriage - woman

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HOW TO TO BE A GOOD WIFE

 

PRACTICAL BEHAVIOUR

 

Get rid of weaves/extensions and wigs/ fake nails/ fake eye lashes/ pants/trousers. Never ever buy them or touch them again. Have nothing to do with it.

 

If you have no health issues with your hair than grow your hair natural and long. Beyond shoulder length.

 

Be industrious and work; bring food on the table. Like the virtuous woman proverbs 31:10-31.

 

Eliminate overweight out of your life. (it is not healthy)

 

Get strong and fit.

 

Dress holy

 

Take care of the children.

 

Love the sisterhood. Don’t fight your sisters. Be united.

 

Be nice and friendly and mild to everyone.

 

Be hospitable

 

Let your man be the boss and encourage him to be the boss. He has the final say in the house. No excuses.

 

Follow your man across the world, be his faithfull traveling mate

 

Never scream to your man

 

Never curse or talk rude and with the “black woman attitude”

 

Do not talk in the company of men; unless asked for

 

Don't call your husband by his first name. Call your husband "sir/master/lord".

 

Do not ask your man to do things for you that you can do yourself; Is he your help? Or are you his help?

 

Ask your man what you can do for him

 

If your man desires to have another wife besides you (as in polygyny): accept it, love it and enjoy the benefits of it and love that sister and welcome her. Even help finding the new wife together with him.

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SCRIPTURES

 

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Genesis 1:27

So The Most High created man in his own image, in the image of The Most High he created him; male and female he created them.

 

Genesis 2:18

Then The Most High said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

 

Genesis 3:16

To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”

 

Deuteronomy 22:5

“A woman shall not wear a man's garment, nor shall a man put on a woman's cloak, for whoever does these things is an abomination to The Most High your Power.

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Psalm 46:5

The Most High is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved; The Most High will help her when morning dawns.

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Proverbs 11:16

A gracious woman gets honor, and violent men get riches.

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Proverbs 12:4

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.

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Proverbs 14:1

The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.

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Proverbs 31:30-31

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears The Most High is to be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.

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Proverbs 11:22

Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

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Proverbs 21:19

It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.

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Proverbs 31:26

She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

 

Proverbs 11:22

As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.

 

Proverbs 21:9

It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.

 

Proverbs 31:27

She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

 

Proverbs 6:20

My son, keep your father's commandment, and forsake not your mother's teaching.

 

Proverbs 18:22

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from The Most High.

 

Proverbs 19:13

A foolish son is ruin to his father, and a wife's quarreling is a continual dripping of rain.

 

Proverbs 31:20

She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy.

 

Proverbs 31:25

Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.

 

Proverbs 3:15-18

She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her; those who hold her fast are called blessed.

 

Proverbs 31:10-31

An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar. ...

 

Matthew 27:55-56

There were also many women there, looking on from a distance, who had followed Yahusha from Galilee, ministering to him, among whom were Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of James and Joseph and the mother of the sons of Zebedee.

 

Mark 15:40-41

There were also women looking on from a distance, among whom were Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joses, and Salome. When he was in Galilee, they followed him and ministered to him, and there were also many other women who came up with him to Jerusalem.

 

Luke 8:1-3

Soon afterward he went on through cities and villages, proclaiming and bringing the good news of the kingdom of The Most High. And the twelve were with him, and also some women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities: Mary, called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out, and Joanna, the wife of Chuza, Herod's household manager, and Susanna, and many others, who provided for them out of their means.

 

Luke 10:38-42

Now as they went on their way, Yahusha entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Yahusha's feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Christ, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But Yahusha answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”

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Luke 2:36-38

And there was a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was advanced in years, having lived with her husband seven years from when she was a virgin, and then as a widow until she was eighty-four. She did not depart from the temple, worshiping with fasting and prayer night and day. And coming up at that very hour she began to give thanks to The Most High and to speak of him to all who were waiting for the redemption of Jerusalem.

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Acts 2:17-18

“‘And in the last days it shall be, The Most High declares, that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh, and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams; even on my male servants and female servants in those days I will pour out my Spirit, and they shall prophesy.

 

Acts 9:36

Now there was in Joppa a disciple named Tabitha, which, translated, means Dorcas. She was full of good works and acts of charity.

 

Acts 18:26

He began to speak boldly in the synagogue, but when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him and explained to him the way of The Most High more accurately.

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Acts 16:14

One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of The Most High. The Most High opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul.

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Acts 21:7-9

When we had finished the voyage from Tyre, we arrived at Ptolemais, and we greeted the brothers and stayed with them for one day. On the next day we departed and came to Caesarea, and we entered the house of Philip the evangelist, who was one of the seven, and stayed with him. He had four unmarried daughters, who prophesied.

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Romans 16:1-16

I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church at Cenchreae, that you may welcome her in Christ in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many and of myself as well. Greet Prisca and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Yahusha, who risked their necks for my life, to whom not only I give thanks but all the churches of the Gentiles give thanks as well. Greet also the church in their house. Greet my beloved Epaenetus, who was the first convert to Christ in Asia. ...

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1Cor.7:3

The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.

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1 Corinthians 11:5

But every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven.

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1 Corinthians 11:3

But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is The Most High.

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1 Corinthians 11:11

Nevertheless, in Christ woman is not independent of man nor man of woman;

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1 Corinthians 14:33-35

For The Most High is not a Power of confusion but of peace. As in all the churches of the saints, the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.

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1 Corinthians 11:3-10

But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is The Most High. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of The Most High, but woman is the glory of man. ...

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Ephesians 5:22-33

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the The Most High. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...

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Colossians 3:1

If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of The Most High.

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Colossians 3:18

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Christ.

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1 Timothy 2:11-15

Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control.

 

1 Timothy 3:11

Their wives likewise must be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things.

 

1 Timothy 2:9-10

Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.

 

1 Timothy 5:14

So I would have younger widows marry, bear children, manage their households, and give the adversary no occasion for slander.

 

Titus 2:3-8

Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of The Most High may not be reviled.

 

Hebrews 13:4

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for The Most High will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

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1 Peter 2:13-17

Be subject for the Christ's sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those who do good. For this is the will of The Most High, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people. Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living as servants of The Most High. Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear The Most High. Honor the emperor.

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Prov. 10:19 

In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.

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James 1:19

“Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:”

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1 Peter 3:1-22

Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct.

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—

but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in The Most High's sight is very precious.

For this is how the holy women who hoped in The Most High used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, ...

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Ecclesiasticus 22:5

She that is bold dishonoureth both her father and her husband, but they both shall despise her.

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Ecclesiasticus 25:8a

Well is him that dwelleth with a wife of understanding,......

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Ecclesiasticus 25:13

Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman:

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Ecclesiasticus 25:16

I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:17-18

The wickedness of a woman changeth her face, and darkeneth her countenance like sackcloth.

Her husband shall sit among his neighbours; and when he heareth it shall sigh bitterly.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:19

All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:20

As the climbing up a sandy way is to the feet of the aged, so is a wife full of words to a quiet man.

 

Ecclesiasticus 32:8 

Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few words; be as one that knoweth and yet holdeth his tongue. 

 

Ecclesiasticus 28:25 

And weigh thy words in a balance, and make a door and bar for thy mouth. 

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:23

A wicked woman abateth the courage, maketh an heavy countenance and a wounded heart: a woman that will not comfort her husband in distress maketh weak hands and feeble knees.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:24

Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:25

Give the water no passage; neither a wicked woman liberty to gad abroad.

 

Ecclesiasticus 25:26

If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:1

Blessed is the man that hath a virtuous wife, for the number of his days shall be double.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:2

A virtuous woman rejoiceth her husband, and he shall fulfil the years of his life in peace.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:3

A good wife is a good portion, which shall be given in the portion of them that fear The Most High.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:6

But a grief of heart and sorrow is a woman that is jealous over another woman, and a scourge of the tongue which communicateth with all.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:7

An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:8

A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:9

The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:13

The grace of a wife delighteth her husband, and her discretion will fatten his bones.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:14

A silent and loving woman is a gift of The Most High; and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:15

A shamefaced and faithful woman is a double grace, and her continent mind cannot be valued.

 

Ecclesiasticus 26:16

As the sun when it ariseth in the high heaven; so is the beauty of a good wife in the ordering of her house.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:22

An harlot shall be accounted as spittle; but a married woman is a tower against death to her husband.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:23

A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth The Most HIgh.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:24

A dishonest woman contemneth shame: but an honest woman will reverence her husband.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:25

A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear The Most High.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:26

A woman that honoureth her husband shall be judged wise of all; but she that dishonoureth him in her pride shall be counted ungodly of all.

 

Ecclestiasticus 26:27

A loud crying woman and a scold shall be sought out to drive away the enemies.

 

Ecclesiasticus 36:22

The beauty of a woman cheereth the countenance, and a man loveth nothing better.

 

Ecclesiasticus 36:23

If there be kindness, meekness, and comfort, in her tongue, then is not her husband like other men.

 

Ecclesiasticus 36:24

He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.

 

Ecclesiasticus 37:12

“But be continually with a godly man, whom thou knowest to keepe the commandements of The Most High, whose minde is according to thy minde, and will sorrow with thee, if thou shalt miscarry.” 

 

Ecclesiasticus 42:14

Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach.